The Complete Gathering Guide
Everything you need before you host your first gathering.
You don't need a planner on retainer to host something that works.
You need a clear framework, built by someone who's done this hundreds of times, broken down into steps you can actually follow.
The Complete Gathering Guide walks you through the entire Gathering Cycle: seed, root, gather, tend, harvest. You’ll know exactly what to do at every stage.
This is built for the founder who wants to do it herself but doesn't want to start from a blank page. It’s the same framework we use with private clients, made accessible at a price that respects a lean budget.
What's inside the 50+ Pages:
Built around the Gathering Cycle™ (Seed, Root, Gather, Tend, Harvest), this guide walks you through every stage of planning and hosting an intentional gathering, with the templates and tools to actually execute it.
This guide is for you if:
You've never hosted a business gathering before
You've done it once and it didn't quite land
You have a lean budget and no events team behind you
You want a framework you'll reuse, not a one-time checklist
What’s Included
Seed — Defining Purpose
Purpose worksheet with six questions that shape every decision that follows
The most common building mistake and how to avoid it
Root — Building Your Event
Full budget planner with F&B calculator, break-even calculator, and ROI tracker
Venue selection guidance — what to decide before you reach out, what to ask, and what to watch out for
A copy-paste venue inquiry template
What to confirm before you sign anything — contracts, BEOs, red flags
Guest list strategy for cold and warm lists
What your guests should leave with, tangible and intangible
Full pre-event communication suite: invitation templates for every gathering format, confirmation email, week-out reminder, day-before reminder, can't-make-it response, and ghost RSVP follow-up
Vendor sourcing guidance and how to work with them fairly
Pre-event logistics checklist
Gather — Host With Confidence
Arrival checklist and walk-through framework
How to open the room so guests feel welcomed in the first five minutes
Run-of-show template
How to guide energy and create connections for your guests during the event
How to close with intention
Fielding interest when someone wants to work with you
Documentation and photography guidance
Tend — What Happens After
Follow-up tracking table
Post-event debrief worksheet
24-hour, one-week, and one-month follow-up templates
Testimonial and social proof capture guidance
Content sharing strategy including what not to post and why
Photo sharing guidance for guests
Harvest — Measuring and Repeating
Metrics table to measure against your original purpose
Know when to stay small, when to grow, and when not to
Guest list compounding — how your first gathering builds the next one
Back to Seed prompt to close the loop and start the next cycle
Also includes:
Definitions of key terms (F&B minimum, BEO, ROS, attrition, soft hold, and more)
Gathering Cycle™ framework overview